For those of you that do not know I am a PROUD father of the coolest two year old on the earth. Unfortunately for him, I am not with his mother which turns out to be quite nice for me. Anyway, I have not been able to see him as much as I'd like to for some time because of my job. I was hoping to see Myles this weekend but he is heading to the OBX with his mom. So, I thought that I would go ahead and set up next weekend now. Now, I must provide some background in order for you the reader to fully understand this. His mother is younger than I am. She is obviously torn between partying and being a mother as she clearly demonstrates through action. I left her because of this and general disagreement. You see when a person uses logic to determine decisions in life they tend to be out of line with those who don't. She is one of those. I am by no means saying that i am perfect but I am blamed for much more than I deserve. For example, I am currently having my son kept from me because "she doesn't like the way I talk to her". Melodramatic doesn't even begin to describe this one and if it wasn't for the front she put up in the beginning we probably wouldn't be here today.
In all honesty, I am within my boundaries to post pictures and launch a smear campaign, who wants that though. me So now I am in a position where I need to take her to court to see my son...what kinda shit is that? I guess the whole reason I am even writing this is to try and gain some kind of understanding. I mean normal logic was out the window years ago. So what is this enigmatic train of thought? Why is it even tolerated by anyone? Well the short answer is that to find the long answer I am going to need much more than this blog and life experience. I mean really, as a mother who is supposed to want the very best for their child, wouldn't you want him or her to see their Father/Mother? It is baffling to me especially when the reasons given are so trivial.
I hear things through the grapevine all the time about her Mom not being happy with the fact that she watches the children all the time. Oh yea, she has another son from another guy, I took care of him too. In reality I should be the one giving her shit. God knows how many different guys have been around my son as one of "mommies friends". Sadly enough even though this goes on everyday the law still remains on the side of the mother. I can tell you from personal experience, I can name at least FIVE girls who either use drugs while pregnant of take their kids in very dangerous spots, the dads are fine but they lost in court. It's very twisted. I really can only think of one guy I could blame for the same. It's true life bullshit.
When it comes down to it, it's not her fault though. It is what she was taught as a child. What she picked up from her mentors. Parents both married and divorced several times. The cycle continues and that sucks believe me, I am from a divorced family, I know. I will leave you readers with this. That is if you have made it this far...I recently was told that someone wanted to do a drive-by with a squirt gun and throw pastries at her (she's a twig). Just to let you guys know its not just me being bitter.
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